{"id":10964,"date":"2026-05-09T20:41:06","date_gmt":"2026-05-09T18:41:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/?p=10964"},"modified":"2026-05-09T20:41:06","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T18:41:06","slug":"dua-te-kem-nje-femije-elvana-gjata-rrefim-emocional-per-jeten-private-sakrifica-me-e-madhe-qe-paguaj-nga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/lajme\/dua-te-kem-nje-femije-elvana-gjata-rrefim-emocional-per-jeten-private-sakrifica-me-e-madhe-qe-paguaj-nga\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cDua t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb\u201d- Elvana Gjata rr\u00ebfim emocional p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn private: Sakrifica m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb paguaj nga\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>K\u00ebng\u00ebtarja e njohur, Elvana Gjata ka folur hapur p\u00ebr rrug\u00ebtimin e saj n\u00eb muzik\u00eb dhe jet\u00ebn personale.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr Dalina Buzin, k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja u ndal fillimisht te koncertet, duke kujtuar performanc\u00ebn n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe objektivin p\u00ebr koncertin e ardhsh\u00ebm n\u00eb Milano.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUn\u00eb jam shum\u00eb koshiente p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebto 20 vjet dhe kur jam ngjitur n\u00eb sken\u00eb dhe kam par\u00eb 25 mij\u00eb veta kam th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018Uaa, v\u00ebrtet\u2019. N\u00eb fakt, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebllimi im edhe p\u00ebr koncertin q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb Milano. Dua q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb vijn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebndojn\u00eb, t\u00eb k\u00ebrcejn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb eksperienc\u00ebn. Dua q\u00eb kur njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb dalin nga koncerti t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb motivuar p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn\u201d, u shpreh ajo ne \u201cDalina Show\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Sa i p\u00ebrket nj\u00eb rikthimi n\u00eb Festivali i K\u00ebng\u00ebs, ajo nuk dha nj\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d apo \u201cjo\u201d t\u00eb prer\u00eb. Gjata pranoi se pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e larta dhe reagimet pas pjes\u00ebmarrjeve me \u2018Tana\u2019 dhe \u2018Karnavalet\u2019 kan\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim i fort\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Ajo theksoi se kritikat, edhe kur b\u00ebhen personale, i lexon dhe p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb prej tyre di\u00e7ka objektive p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUn\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me pritshm\u00ebrin\u00eb. Ndoshta pritshm\u00ebria ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb e lart\u00eb pas k\u00ebng\u00ebs me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn un\u00eb mora pjes\u00eb n\u00eb vitin e par\u00eb n\u00eb festival, \u2018T\u00eb tana\u2019. E kuptova q\u00eb n\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarrjen e dyte, k\u00ebnga e atij viti, \u2018Karnavalet\u2019, nuk arriti t\u00eb dep\u00ebrtoj\u00eb tek t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por un\u00eb e kuptoj, jam shum\u00eb okej, sepse nuk mund t\u2019i p\u00eblqesh t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Ajo pjes\u00eb q\u00eb mua m\u00eb l\u00ebndoi ishte q\u00eb kaloi nga nj\u00eb kritik\u00eb profesionale n\u00eb nj\u00eb helm personal. Por prap\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb figur\u00eb publike, e pranoj edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb. Un\u00eb k\u00ebto komentet e k\u00ebqija i lexoj, sepse nuk kam frik\u00eb t\u2019i lexoj dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mundohem t\u2019i zhvesh nga emocionet negative dhe t\u00eb shoh at\u00eb pjes\u00ebn objektive, sepse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ka disa t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, ose un\u00eb preferoj t\u00eb shoh pjes\u00ebn e mir\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj gj\u00ebje q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohem p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n<p>Nga t\u00eb dyja festivalet un\u00eb kam marr\u00eb dy valixhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira me m\u00ebsime, t\u00eb cilat do t\u2019i p\u00ebrdor p\u00ebr her\u00ebn e tret\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk e di kur do t\u00eb jet\u00eb. Nuk e di se si do t\u00eb vij\u00eb jeta. Nuk mund t\u00eb them as q\u00eb nuk dua t\u00eb marr pjes\u00eb, as q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr pjes\u00eb. Nuk e di sinqerisht, do t\u2019i l\u00eb gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb vijn\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm\u201d, tha Elvana Gjata.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb planin personal, artistja foli p\u00ebr sakrificat q\u00eb i ka sjell\u00eb fama, duke e cil\u00ebsuar munges\u00ebn pran\u00eb familjes si nj\u00eb nga dhimbjet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Ajo pranoi se angazhimi intensiv n\u00eb karrier\u00eb i ka marr\u00eb koh\u00eb nga njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, nj\u00eb kosto q\u00eb e ndjen fort.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNj\u00eb nga faturat m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjta q\u00eb un\u00eb paguaj dhe nj\u00eb nga sakrificat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha q\u00eb un\u00eb b\u00ebj n\u00eb pun\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebj \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos jem prezente aq sa do t\u00eb doja n\u00eb jet\u00ebt e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mi m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb e vuaj shum\u00eb. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb kaloja m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb me familjen time, me miqt\u00eb e mi t\u00eb zemr\u00ebs, por puna q\u00eb b\u00ebj un\u00eb, pa diskutim q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb dhe jetoj me t\u00eb, k\u00ebrkon shum\u00eb energji dhe koh\u00eb, dhe t\u00eb merr koh\u00ebn nga njer\u00ebzit e tu m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb mundon shum\u00eb\u201d, u shpreh ajo.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebrballja me momentet e v\u00ebshtira, sipas saj, ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb proces individual. K\u00ebng\u00ebtarja tha se nuk ka k\u00ebrkuar ndihm\u00eb profesionale, por ka zgjedhur t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetet te forca e brendshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar periudhat m\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebta.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cT\u00eb gjitha momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u00eb jet\u00ebs time kam zgjedhur q\u00eb t\u2019i kaloj me veten dhe un\u00eb nuk kam zgjedhur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj ndihm\u00eb profesionale. Absolutisht q\u00eb n\u00ebse dikush zgjedh t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra e tyre dhe jam shum\u00eb n\u00eb rregull me k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, por m\u00ebnyra ime ka qen\u00eb q\u00eb momentet m\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebta, m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnda, m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira t\u2019i kaloj me veten, pa alkool, pa ila\u00e7e, pa asgj\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me forc\u00ebn q\u00eb kam gjetur brenda vetes time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Muzika, sipas saj, mbetet kanali m\u00eb i sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur emocionet. Ajo e sheh dhimbjen dhe p\u00ebrjetimet e forta si \u201ckarburant\u201d p\u00ebr krijimtarin\u00eb, duke shtuar se shpesh preferon t\u00eb komunikoj\u00eb p\u00ebrmes k\u00ebng\u00ebve dhe jo intervistave.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrandaj nuk m\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00eblqyer kurr\u00eb intervistat, sepse gjithmon\u00eb mesazhet m\u00eb t\u00eb forta kam zgjedhur t\u2019i jap p\u00ebrmes muzik\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb instinkt i kthyer n\u00eb strategji, sepse kur ti e njeh mir\u00eb veten t\u00ebnde, e di kur t\u00eb reagosh dhe un\u00eb jam m\u00ebsuar q\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb dhimbje dhe emocionet e forta t\u2019i p\u00ebrdor si nj\u00eb karburant p\u00ebr artin tim\u201d, tha ajo.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fund, Elvana Gjata ndau edhe nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb personale, t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00ebn\u00eb. Ajo u shpreh se dashuria p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e pranishme, por koh\u00ebt e fundit ky mendim \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb edhe m\u00eb i fort\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb kam dashur t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb, sepse i dua jasht\u00ebzakonisht shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb ky mendim ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb i shpesht\u00eb n\u00eb mendjen time koh\u00ebt e fundit. Sigurisht q\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha dashur ta kisha nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb edhe m\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb kem bekimin t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb si\u00e7 jam un\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit e mi, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb \u2018Elvan\u00eb\u2019 t\u00eb vog\u00ebl ose nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kujdesej p\u00ebr mua nj\u00ebsoj\u201d, p\u00ebrfundoi artistja.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K\u00ebng\u00ebtarja e njohur, Elvana Gjata ka folur hapur p\u00ebr rrug\u00ebtimin e saj n\u00eb muzik\u00eb dhe jet\u00ebn personale. N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr Dalina Buzin, k\u00ebng\u00ebtarja u ndal fillimisht te koncertet, duke kujtuar performanc\u00ebn n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb dhe objektivin p\u00ebr koncertin e ardhsh\u00ebm n\u00eb Milano. \u201cUn\u00eb jam shum\u00eb koshiente p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebto 20 vjet dhe&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10965,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/IMG_4937.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10964"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10964\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10966,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10964\/revisions\/10966"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}