N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb me Arbana Osmanin, n\u00eb “Mir\u00ebmbr\u00ebma Yje”, Loredana ka folur\u00a0p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr njohjen dhe historin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb me Karim Adeyemi-n, futbollistin gjerman t\u00eb Borussia Dortmund.<\/p>\n
Si fillim, Loredana tha se iu desh nj\u00eb vit koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dy ta ndanin mendjen n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb nisnin nj\u00eb lidhje ose jo, kjo prej diferenc\u00ebs s\u00eb mosh\u00ebs dhe eksperiencave t\u00eb ndryshme jet\u00ebsore q\u00eb t\u00eb dy kishin. Loredana ishte 27 vje\u00e7 kur u njoh me Karim-in, kurse ai 21.<\/p>\n
“Kemi pasur nevoj\u00eb 1 vit derisa tamam jemi stabilizuar, kemi kuptuar se\u00a0\u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh. M\u00eb shum\u00eb ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr mua jo serioze, ‘\u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i ri’, ‘nuk shkon absolutisht’, ‘nuk p\u00ebrshtatet’, ‘\u00e7far\u00eb do thot\u00eb n\u00ebna?’. N\u00eb mendimet e mia s’ka qen\u00eb fare. Por pastaj duke dal\u00eb, edhe pse n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb ka qen\u00eb 21 vje\u00e7…thoja me 21-vje\u00e7ar nuk ka shanse. Edhe pse tani,\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb o Zot, sikur\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb 50,\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i pjekur.”<\/em><\/p>\n Mosha ka qen\u00eb nd\u00ebr diskutimet m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta n\u00eb fillimet e tyre, por tani, n\u00eb 4 vite s\u00eb bashku, Loredana thot\u00eb se nuk ndien asnj\u00eb lloj pengese, sepse Karim-i\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb shum\u00eb i pjekur:<\/p>\n “Edhe ai gjithmon\u00eb thoshte ‘pse gjithmon\u00eb ma p\u00ebrmend mosh\u00ebn? Un\u00eb jam 21, nuk duhet t\u00eb ma p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh m\u00eb, un\u00eb jam i pjekur,’ gjithmon\u00eb mundohej t\u00eb ma shpjegonte. Un\u00eb i thoja ‘po, po ti nuk ke p\u00ebrjetuar\u00a0\u00e7far\u00eb kam p\u00ebrjetuar un\u00eb’. Tani q\u00eb un\u00eb jam 30 dhe ky 24, kam menduar se kam m\u00eb shum\u00eb eksperienca, por n\u00eb fakt ky nuk ka pasur nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebto eksperienca, e ka kuptuar jet\u00ebn, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb nivel m\u00eb mir\u00eb se un\u00eb.”<\/em><\/p>\n Dashuria e tyre\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb, por ajo q\u00eb e ka bindur m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti Loredan\u00ebn ka qen\u00eb kujdesi i pakusht\u00ebzuar i Karim-it ndaj vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, Han\u00ebs:<\/p>\n “Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje ishte se kur dilja me t\u00eb thoshte ‘pse s’e merr vajz\u00ebn?’ Un\u00eb isha pak si n\u00eb siklet se un\u00eb e mbroj Han\u00ebn maksimalisht dhe thoja ‘s’dua ta takoj\u00eb’, isha pak si n\u00eb panik, por kur e kam par\u00eb n\u00eb momente me vajz\u00ebn, ai ka qen\u00eb p\u00ebr mua [i duhuri].”<\/em><\/p>\n Loredana foli edhe p\u00ebr komentet raciste q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb lidhjes s\u00eb tyre, duke treguar se e gjitha ndodh m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti online, pasi n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb e Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr shembull, Karim-i\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00ebpritur:<\/p>\n “S’kam qejf t\u00eb viktimizohem, as ky s’ka qejf t\u00eb viktimizohet, normal q\u00eb ka pasur komente. Edhe un\u00eb e kam pasur at\u00eb mendimin q\u00eb e dua shqiptar, po ky tani m\u00eb duket m\u00eb shqiptar se vetja. Ky e do Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb dhe Kosov\u00ebn aq shum\u00eb, sa kjo m\u00eb ka bindur akoma m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ka th\u00ebn\u00eb ‘Pse? Sa t\u00eb mir\u00eb njer\u00ebzit!’ N\u00eb Kosov\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb e kan\u00eb pritur.”<\/em><\/p>\n Por si e priti familja e Loredan\u00ebs Karim-in?<\/p>\n “Si ta prisnin? Kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb ‘m\u00eb mir\u00eb mos t’i themi gj\u00eb se kjo do b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb do vet\u00eb’ dhe kan\u00eb besim shum\u00eb tek un\u00eb. Tani raporti mes n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe Karim-it\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb fenomenal. N\u00ebna ime e do shum\u00eb.”\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n T\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie shprehu se kishte dhe ajo me vjehrrit e saj. P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket planeve p\u00ebr zgjerimin e familjes, Loredana zbuloi se ka shum\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb, por\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb ende e l\u00ebnduar nga martesa e par\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb, u duk qart\u00eb se martesa\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e shenjt\u00eb, ndaj do t\u00eb mendohet mir\u00eb para se t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarr\u00eb hapa serioz\u00eb:<\/p>\n “Normal q\u00eb kam qejf shum\u00eb [p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb], por me traum\u00ebn q\u00eb kam pasur, e kam ende, kam pak frik\u00eb. Un\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj t\u00eb jet\u00eb martesa e fundit se s’m\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb martohem 10 her\u00eb.”<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb me Arbana Osmanin, n\u00eb “Mir\u00ebmbr\u00ebma Yje”, Loredana ka folur\u00a0p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr njohjen dhe historin\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb me Karim Adeyemi-n, futbollistin gjerman t\u00eb Borussia Dortmund. Si fillim, Loredana tha se iu desh nj\u00eb vit koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dy ta ndanin mendjen n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb nisnin nj\u00eb lidhje ose jo, kjo prej…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3640,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3639","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/IMG_8898.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3639","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3639"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3639\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3641,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3639\/revisions\/3641"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3640"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3639"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3639"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/toolsyo.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3639"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}